Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Use Internet Dating Sites And Dating Secrets

By Mike Tauber


At top internet dating site you have a better chance and can discover someone who may not be able to be reached by any other method (not everyone has the time or inclination to hit the clubs or "hot" spots. A lot of guys brag how easily it is to find a girl. Don't believe everything you hear.

Many men tend to botch their chances with the ladies through a number of moves, along with a forced persona - something picked up from a fixation and admiration of Sean Connery, Mel Gibson, or Johnny Depp. Let's face it. Hollywood does not usually parallel reality. You'd be better off using a photo image and profile at an internet dating site.

No matter where you find yourself, in the internet dating sites or in social situations, these secrets will prove useful. These are five of the best dating secrets for the regular guy. They'll improve your score so pay attention.

1.Your first assignment in a mini-course, 'Best Dating Secrets for Men'? If you haven't already read, 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus', pick up a copy and do so now. You'll find gems of truth with respect to the innate emotional differences between men and women, some of which will be true epiphanies. You'll learn that men and women often respond entirely differently to the same situation, concept or emotion. What you might find hilarious, your girl might feel scandalized, or think you insensitive. This book is an easy read and provides humorous insights that will help get you in sync with women's way of thinking. With this new found understanding, you'll be miles ahead of men who lack this essential information.

2. Practice having a normal conversation. Listen to yourself, if need be, on a tape recorder. Women prefer a soft-spoken personality and are rebuffed by a loud, boisterous man. Turn down the volume to a more sensitive demeanor.

3. Nothing is more disconcerting than someone who is ego-bent on interrupting conversations with a me-fest. Women want an attentive listener and a two-way exchange, not someone who need to be the center of attention all the time.

4. Don't indulge in non-constructive criticism. It's a definite turn off to a woman. Let's say you don't care for her dress and feel it's your duty to point this out. Don't do it! She obviously went to a lot of trouble to look nice for your date. This type of faux paus belongs in the 'Dating Secrets for Men - not!' category.

5. Make a real impression with the real you, not some forced persona. Be the real you. Don't try to be something you're not. When you show up as the genuine real deal, you'll not be scratched off her list as a phony. Women have a sixth sense spotting fakes.

After you do your reading and implement the 4 dating secrets with women you find on internet dating sites or off the streets of casual encounter, you'll be busy. Women want more of a good thing and fun times.

40 million Americans use online dating services; which is about 40 percent of our entire U.S. single-people population. Internet dating sites are the best way to find the right one.




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